Never Say Die
Like the Native American, I use all parts of the buffalo. Meaning that I milk my prospects dry, to a fault.
Some guys bitterly delete a girl’s number after a flake or two, but I know that it takes 10 seconds to shoot a girl a text and see if she’s in the right mood to respond favorably. Double (or triply) so if you mass text. You have nothing to lose, except your dignity. And you will lose it. Over. And. Over.
Since I still have a shitty old flip phone, it periodically runs out of space for text messages. Today my phone filled up, so I went back through some of the Sent messages to delete them.
I noticed a mass text from a few weeks ago: “Hey do u want to grab a drink this week?”
I had sent it to three girls. Except now two of them were just random numbers, meaning I had deleted them from my phone.
Hmm… these prospects must have been really dead for me to delete them. Well, what’s a resourceful Gamesman like myself to do? Resurrect them, of course.
I knew pretty well which girls these were. One was a super-hot 30-something who had been into me the night we met but was drunk, and completely ignored me after that day.
The other was a girl I spoke to for about 5 minutes before leaving a concert. We vibed, had some good inside jokes going on, but I made one comment about “my girlfriend” when I meant my ex-girlfriend.
I was experimenting with jealousy plot lines around that time, and when we texted later in the week, I really overdid it. She told me she had just got out of yoga class, so I said, “Oh, this girl I’m dating teaches yoga. Maybe she’s your teacher?”
After that, this girl was understandably weary of hanging out with me. You advertise your preselection through your vibe and confidence, not by bragging about it. It is totally counterproductive to tell a girl you sleep with a lot of girls or that many girls like you. You can drop SUBTLE hints, such as remarking about “stalker exes” or frequently getting interrupted by texts. But don’t give her conscious brain a reason to disqualify you. Her subconscious already knows you’re a desirable man, and is getting her body revved up to have sex with you.
So assuming-but-not-really-knowing who these two girls were, I sent them another text. “Let’s get a drink this week.”
I get a text back, so I save this girl’s number in my phone again, as “?”.
?: Who is this again?
I decide the best course of action is just to call her and find out who she is. I even plan on explaining how I’ve deleted her number too (although in hindsight she probably wouldn’t have believed me, haha).
Luckily she doesn’t answer, so I get to hear her name right away in the voicemail. It’s indeed the concert girl who thought I had a girlfriend. I leave a message: “Hey ? it’s Dagonet. Give me a call when you have a chance. Talk to you soon.”
A few minutes later I get this text:
?: Is this the Dagonet with a girlfriend??
This is where the power of Agree & Amplify comes in. Through this one easily-mastered technique, I completely change this girl’s opinion of me.
Dagonet: No you must have me confused with someone. im the dagonet with 3 girlfriends
?: Got to give you credit- you are witty
Dagonet: Lets get one drink and u can more accurately judge me.
?: Ok. . You are very persistent, aren’t you? Lol. When are you free?
Dagonet: Another of my great traits. thursday would work
By this time it was after 11 PM so we’ll see if it picks up tomorrow.
Regardless, you can see the power of persistence, and of passing a shit test.
When in doubt…
Agree & Amplify